“We
are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual
beings having a human experience.”
—
Pierre
Teilhard de Chardin
What do you mean when you use the term
‘Spirit’?
Spirit is collective group of energy that encompasses all “Energies of
the Light.” This includes the souls of our loved ones who have “crossed
over” to the other side, our guardian angels, our spirit guides,
Source, Universe, etc. Spirit is an “entourage” of energies that
surrounds each of us in an effort to comfort, love, support, and guide
us while we are here living a physical experience.
What does Spirit do on the
‘Other Side’?
From what has been shown to me by Spirit, your loved ones do a lot of
what they enjoyed doing while here in the physical world. They have a
lot of the same interests and hobbies. They also have responsibilities
on the other side just like we do here. Much of their time there is
utilized to help our Universe in many different ways. They also support
and guide their loved ones that are still here on the physical plane.
They help us navigate our way through life circumstances, specifically
when it comes to soul contracts and life lessons. As they carry out all
of this “work” they are able to ascend to higher levels on the other
side. This evolution is the ultimate goal of each and every soul,
whether we are learning and evolving here or there.
What can I expect to
experience in a Reading?
Each “Reading” is divinely guided by Spirit. The intention that I set
forth prior to our time together is that Spirit comes through with the
messages that you need to hear in an effort to help facilitate a deeper
level of peace, comfort, healing, and to heighten your own personal
connection with your loved ones, angels, and guides. A “Reading” is
actually not me “reading” you at all. Instead, I am actually being used
as a vessel to channel Spirit for you. A reading is a platform designed
to help restore emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual balance.
While connecting with your loved ones through a channel such as a
Medium, you are able to receive clear, specific, and detailed messages
that only you and your loved ones would be privy to. These messages are
shared with the intent to validate that your connection, the bonds
shared between you and your loved ones, are infinite and everlasting.
Your loved ones are still very much a part of your life, guiding you,
and communicating with you in many ways. This experience is certain to
awaken your heart and mind to the universal truth that we are all in
fact “Spirit Living a Human Experience”.
How can I prepare for a
Reading?
I always ask that all information that is shared within the sacred
space of a reading be of the Light and always be for the Highest Good
of all involved. All of the messages shared are provided by Spirit and
then channeled through me. So it is very important that you understand
that Spirit is in charge. This is their opportunity to share messages
that they feel will best support you in your healing and also in you
life experience. Neither you, nor me, or any other Medium for
that matter, has complete control over who or what comes through during
a reading. You can never be unprepared for your reading, as this
exchange is divinely inspired. It is important to come with an open
mind. However, I have found that if you are looking to achieve guidance
regarding specific events, questions or concerns, or wanting to connect
to a specific loved one, that if take a little bit of time to think
about what your goals are prior to coming to your session, your loved
ones will often provide the answers you need. You can pray on it, write
down a few notes on what you would like to achieve (for your reference
only), set an intention, and then allow. As long as your requests are
for the highest good of all involved, you will be amazed at how hard
"Spirit" will work to deliver this information to you. Additionally, I
encourage you to take the time necessary to educate yourself in regards
to the process of mediumship. It is also important that you feel
confident with the medium you choose, their abilities and how they
channel. Lastly, yet most importantly, PLEASE make sure that you extend
yourself the respect you deserve in experiencing the stages of grieving
your loved one. Healing is a journey. Be sensitive to the importance of
honoring this process so that you may fully embrace the opportunity for
a reading when you feel the time is right to do so.
What are you? A Medium, a
Psychic? What is the difference?
I am a Psychic Medium, an Intuitive Counselor, an Empath and a Reiki
Master. Each of these modalities joins together in my readings to
synergistically enhance my ability to connect with Spirit. As a Medium,
these messages usually come from a defined and known source such as a
loved one that has crossed over. The process is very much like messages
being relayed through a telephone wire. I am able to channel specific
souls, universal energies, Divine, and specific vibrational forces like
love and healing. While channeling, I work with my own Spirit Guides as
well as yours to connect with your loved ones. Although most of
the information that I channel is obtained by communicating with
Spirit, as a Psychic, I am able to connect with your “energy ” as well.
All mediums are psychics, but not all psychics are mediums. Psychic
work is often described by those who are psychic in terms of the
extra-sensory (beyond the senses) ways in which they receive insight
into people, events, or situations through clairvoyance, clairaudience,
and clairsentience. Psychics differ from other types of spiritual
guides in that they need to ‘translate’ the information they receive. A
psychic obtains information by reading a persons energy and in order to
convey information to another person, they must decipher the images,
words, feelings, sounds, etc. they receive in a way that makes sense to
the person they are guiding. As an Intuitive Counselor, again I am
channeling “Spirit” this time with the majority of focus on guidance,
insight, and support relating to your current life circumstances such
as relationships, purpose, career, health, finances, etc. As an Empath
I am able to use empathy to connect to Spirit. This allows me to feel
emotions and feelings that were experienced here in their physical
incarnation as well as in their crossing over to the other side. I am
also able to connect with the client, which helps me to assist them
process difficulties they may be experiencing, energetic blockages,
etc. Most psychics are empathic, but not all empaths are psychics.
How do you receive
messages and information from Spirit?
In order to channel, I need to turn down my own thoughts,
rational mind, ego, logic, and personal belief system in order to allow
psychic, spiritual, and intuitive messages to flow through me.
During a reading, you can expect to connect with your loved ones,
angels, and guides. I ask that your loved ones acknowledge who I am
channeling so that you know any and all information shared is through
Spirit and not in any way my own thoughts, opinions or words. You will
receive insightful messages, as well as healing validations that your
loved ones are at peace and are still by your side. Spirit will
validate this by sharing details about themselves, their lives, events
that occurred after their crossing, your life, and experiences they
shared with you. They will offer you guidance, support and insight
regarding past, present and future as it pertains to your
relationships, career, finances, health, family, etc. The way I receive
communication from Spirit is different from how I would communicate
with you. The information comes through in words, images, symbols, etc.
Spirit uses my own life experiences and frames of reference to channel
messages to you. It is important to know that Spirit can never be
“wrong,” but what can be incorrect is my interpretation of the
information being given to me. My life experiences are of course very
different from my client’s life experiences, so it is important that if
you do not understand something you tell me so. This allows me to
explain in greater detaiI what I am being shown so that I can better
relay the message and ensure your understanding of it. Additionally, I
experience many messages at the same time, through the sense of
feeling, seeing and hearing. It is necessary for me to be a clear
vessel so that I may receive, interpret, and deliver the messages in a
way that connects to you. All information is shared is of the “Light”
with the intention being for the highest good of all involved. There is
no “Negative” or “Bad” information shared, however, if you are
experiencing a difficult time or situation that Spirit addresses, it is
only to prevent something that you may have control over or to give you
peace of mind on some level. There is always a greater plan in motion
than our conscious minds are often unaware of.
Are you able to “Turn Off”
Spirit or is Spirit with you everywhere you go?
Technically the answer is No. I am not able to completely “turn off”
Spirit communication because Spirit is always with me and is always
with you and as they say, “Where there’s a will there’s a way.” When I
first started to connect with Spirit to this extent, the messages where
constant. No matter where I was or what I was doing there were
messages everywhere. It was quite overwhelming! Through my mentor, I
had to learn how to set better boundaries with Spirit. This allowed me
to ”turn down the volume” of Spirit communication, similar to how you
would turn down the volume dial on your radio. Lowering the intensity
of the messages, in turn, allows me to go about my personal life when I
am not with clients. Now that I work this closely with Spirit it is
important that we have “a contract” in place that honors both of us.
Spirit understands that I have a personal life that needs attention and
tending too. If I were constantly channeling messages it would be
extremely difficult to be present in my own life here in the physical
world. This can certainly be challenging at times but for the most
part, Spirit honors boundaries outside of the setting of a scheduled
appointment as “off limits”. It does not mean that I do not hear them
but they understand that I am typically not going to share these
messages. I do have one exception and that is that I will allow Spirit
to come though with a message no matter where I am and what I am doing
if this information would not otherwise be relayed to or received by
the individual.
Is the experience of a
‘Phone Reading’ the same as an ‘In-Person Reading’? How are you able to
channel Spirit if we are not together?
‘Phone Readings’ offer the same exact experience and effectiveness as
an ‘In-Person Reading’. Spirit is ALWAYS with you, whether you are
aware of this truth or not. Your loved ones, angels, and guides are
only with me for the purpose of communicating with you in a more direct
way then you may be able to connect with your loved ones. They are very
much responsible for pre-arranging our time together from the other
side. Whether I am channeling Spirit with you sitting directly across
from me or if we are on the phone with one another anywhere in the
world, Spirit comes with you for this arranged interaction. You,
yourself are the line of communication that makes it possible for your
loved ones to interact with a medium. I am merely a vessel that Spirit
uses to communicate through. This makes ‘Phone Readings’ ideal for
those with geographical differences than myself as well as an option
for local individuals with time constraints.
What are some of the ways
our Loved Ones communicate or connect with us?
Our Loved Ones are always trying to get messages through to us in an
effort to show us that they are still with us, that they are well, and
at peace. They can certainly communicate with specific details and
validations through Mediums but please don’t ever underestimate the
power they hold that allows them to communicate directly with you. They
will do their best to appear through any means they can in order to get
your attention. They will often come to us in dreams because this is a
very clear experience of visitation that many of us ask for from our
loved ones. Sometimes they will come to us and project a smell that
will remind us of them. It may be their perfume, flowers, the smell of
cigar or cigarette smoke, or any other familiar smell that we might
connect with them. There is usually no logical explanation of why the
smell is there and yet it is. Other times when we are quiet or in
nature we will intuitively “feel” their presence. Thoughts can be
placed in our head almost as if our loved one is having a dialog with
us. They also love to work through electricity. They will turn TVs and
radios on and off, affect lights, doorbells, and phones. They seem to
be able to manipulate energy very easily most likely because they
themselves are energy. Another common way they will connect with us is
through music. They may play their favorite songs for us at a
gathering, or in the car, or when we walk into a restaurant or a store,
etc. Songs may be heard at a time we are feeling like we really need to
hear from our loved one and the words may seem as if they are speaking
directly to us. Our loved ones also like to place objects in our
surroundings that we notice such as coins, feathers, etc. Our loved
ones are able to use their own energy to enter the energy of
butterflies, ladybugs, birds, etc., for a brief period of time. The
animal will do something it usually wouldn't do, such as land on us or
next to us, watch us, or something else that cannot go unnoticed. They
love to show us numbers that are relevant to either themselves or to
you on clocks, billboards, bumper stickers, or the license plates, etc.
It may be a birthday, an anniversary, the date of their passing, the
time of their passing, or even repeating numbers such as 111, 444, 222,
333, etc. When little “things” happen, don't assume they are just
coincidences. Everything mean something, there is no such thing as
coincidences. The more we acknowledge our loved ones communication with
us the more they will show us their presence in our lives.
What does an ‘Intuitive
Counseling’ session consist of?
As an intuitive counselor, I channel “Spirit” just like in a session
where you desire to specifically connect with your loved ones. It is
the exact same process, where the information comes from the same
source, Spirit. Yet instead of focusing the majority of our time
together on validating information connected to your loved ones, we
focus more on the here and the now. This is something Spirit LOVES to
do! They will share guidance and insights regarding relationship,
career, health, financial matters, etc. Spirit will shed light on past,
present, and future events, while assisting you help in better
understanding the meaning of your own life events and personal
circumstances from a soul perspective.
How do ‘Small Group
Readings’ and ‘Gallery Style Readings’ work?
Group Readings typically consist of family members or a group of close
friends who desire to connect with many of the same loved ones who have
crossed over to the other side. Most people like to share this intimate
experience with those they are comfortable and close with. The process
for how I receive information and channel is the exact same process as
applies to ‘private one-on-one readings’ as well as ‘phone readings’.
The only difference in a group setting is the amount of time that I am
able to spend with each person physically present. There are many
variables that influence the amount of time or detail that is relayed
to an individual in a group setting as well as in a private setting.
Spirit will often present themselves in a very similar fashion as they
did here in the physical world. Meaning if they were more of a quieter
personality, or an observer they may not be as forceful in getting
their messages through to you as compared to someone who was the “life
of the party” that is trying to come through at the same event. Spirit
also does this purposefully so that you will recognize them by their
unique attributes. The amount of time that has passed since the soul
has crossed over can also have an impact on the strength of their
vibration and thus their ability to communicate. Other examples of
factors that may impact the ease or challenge in which I am able to
connect with your loved ones and share messages can be the way in which
the soul crossed, how much time they have or have not had to heal and
review their life experience and choices while here in the physical
world. Additionally, if they have or have or have not been
channeled before can affect how clearly they communicate in a reading.
Spirit has to lower their vibration in order to be channeled, while I
have to raise my vibration. This is necessary in order for us to
connect and is a learned ability for both of us. Just like the more I
channel the better I get at communicating with Spirit, the more a loved
ones soul is channeled the better they get at this process. If you have
more than one reading with myself or with other mediums you will see
this to be true.
What is an Empath and how
do I know if I am one?
An empath is someone who can feel what other people are feeling. Being
an empath means you were born with the ability to enter someone else’s
aura and connect to another person’s feelings and experience of life.
Much of the time this is done unconsciously. Empathy is also a psychic
gift, which can be used to ‘read’ others whether it be elective or not.
Until you learn to get your empathy under control you function much
like a sponge, meaning you soak up everyone’s “stuff” and are often
saturated with other people's emotions, both conscious and unconscious.
Many people are empaths without knowing that they are or even what it
is. This results in a person often feeling different or like they don’t
fit in. They are often labeled by others as having sensitivity issues,
are typically deeply spiritual mainly because the gift of empathy
allows you to experience “oneness”. This connection to others gives you
an expanded perspective on other people and on life. If you can relate
to many of the above feelings then you are probably an empath. It is
extremely important for an empathy to learn how to control their
empathic abilities and create personal and spiritual protection so they
do not energetically absorb others emotions, imbalances, etc.
Can you explain the
‘Clairs’?
The ‘Clairs’ include any and all types of psychic sensitivity
corresponding to the sense. It is the ways in which we all receive
information from Spirit.
Clairvoyant is clear vision or seeing, within the “minds eye” into
another vibrational frequency.
Clairaudience is hearing, or the ability to perceive sounds or words.
Clairsentience is clear sensation or feeling, within the whole body,
without any outer stimuli related to the feeling or information.
Clairscent is the clear smelling of something that is not in ones
physical surroundings.
Clairgustance is clear tasting, without putting anything into one’s
mouth.
Clairtangency is clear touching, also know as Psychometry. It is the
ability to handle an object or touch an area and perceive through the
palms of one’s hands information about the article or its owner.
Claireempathy is clear emotion, that is felt within one’s self.
Physically experiencing the feelings, attitude, emotions or aliments of
another.
What is Reiki?
Although I am no longer able to offer Reiki as a service due to my
schedule with Psychic Medium and Intuitive Counseling Readings, I share
with you this information because as a Reiki Master I am able to
utilize this energy in my readings. It heightens my connection with
Spirit and allows me to tap into additional ‘Divine’ energy that I can
share with you during our time together. I also whole-heartedly believe
that every individual will GREATLY benefit from the experience of
energy work and I highly recommended finding a practitioner that can
assist you in this avenue of clearing and healing emotional, physical,
mental and spiritual aspects of yourself. The word Reiki is made
up of two Japanese words. Rei, meaning “God’s Wisdom“ or “The Higher
Power” and Ki, which is "Life Force Energy." It is known as Chi in
China, and Prana in India. So Reiki is "Spiritually Guided Life Force
Energy." It is a healing technique based on the principle that the
therapist can channel energy into the patient by means of hands placed
just off the body or lightly touching the body, as in “laying on of
hands.” Reiki can also be done “long-distance,” as a form of prayer. A
Reiki session feels like a wonderful glowing radiance that flows
through and around you. Reiki treats the whole person including the
body, emotions, mind and spirit, creating many beneficial effects that
include relaxation and feelings of peace, security, and wellbeing. Many
have reported miraculous results after Reiki treatments. Reiki is a
simple, natural, and safe method of spiritual healing and
self-improvement that everyone can use. It has been effective in
helping virtually every known illness and malady and always creates a
beneficial effect. It also works in conjunction with all other medical
or therapeutic techniques to reduce pain, decrease side effects, and
promote recovery.
What do you mean by “We
are all Mediums”?
As babies, we are so close to the 'veil' that exists between worlds
that it is easy to see across it, through it and interact with Spirit
in an effortless way. As we grow older if this connection is not
supported in the environment we are surround by, we will become
'further' away from this “veil” thus weakening our connection and our
abilities to channel. Depending on the personal belief’s of those
around us during our formative years, a person can either continue to
strengthen and develop their abilities or on the contrary become
conditioned to think that these abilities are “not real”. When I say,
“We are all Mediums,” what I mean is that we are all vessels by which
energy flows though. Spirit communicates with each of us and if we are
open and willing to feel the connection and receive the messages shared
they will show us more and more. This does not mean that we all need to
“be” a Medium and start channeling Spirit for others. Instead it means
allow yourself to be open and let your loved ones into your experience
so that Spirit can play a significant role in your life.
As to why there are differences in the intensity of one's ability,
depends on previous life experiences, ‘soul contracts’, and our ability
to quiet the mind and listen to the small still voice
within. I believe that these abilities are gifts from our
creator. They are within us and available to us at all in different
ways.
How can I further develop
my own connection to Spirit?
This is a very important question and something I
want all of my
clients to leave their time with me knowing how to do. Some of the ways
that you can enhance your own abilities is my quieting your mind, going
within through meditation and prayer and being able to discern between
your own thoughts and what Spirit is sharing with you. Be patient, open
and allow the process to evolve. Pay attention to what you are hearing,
seeing, and feeling. Often we miss the messages given to us by Spirit
because we are focused on something else. The more you become
consciously aware, the more you will know your “truth.” I cannot stress
enough the importance of faith and trust not only in your own abilities
but also in your personal connection to Spirit. Ask Spirit to deepen
your connection and you shall receive more. The more the messages are
recognized and honored the clearer they will become. It is very
important to express gratitude after every message and insight. Think
of your ability to connect with Spirit as a muscle. The more you use it
and nurture it, the bigger and stronger it will grow!
What is a ‘Soul Contract’?
A ‘soul contract’ is a sacred contract that is planned out and
committed to by our soul prior to each incarnation or lifetime. We are
bound to these contracts because they are chosen by our ‘higher self’
with the intention to support our souls evolution and enlightenment. We
agree to specific karmic lessons that we will choose to learn, as well
as experiences and circumstances we will encounter to help facilitate
these opportunities for growth. These agreements also address
relationships we will participate in with members of our ‘soul tribe’.
The extent of the relationship, the level of interaction, and what we
will learn from one another is determined by these contracts. Some of
our current relationships that are key to our progress in this lifetime
are those we experience with our parents, siblings, romantic partners,
spouses, children, and certain friends. Additionally, we may only have
a brief experience with some individuals, yet their impact on our life
might still be significant, as they may open up opportunities related
to our contracts. With all of this said, it is VERY important to know
that ultimately, we do have control over our lives in many ways. Free
will is still a BIG part of our soul’s journey. We have the power to
make decisions about how we respond to experiences, how we navigate our
way through life, and what paths we decide to follow. Just because an
opportunity for soul growth comes to us does not mean we have to take
it or that we will. If we do not learn a particular lesson or fulfill
that part of our contract in this life, our soul may choose to bring it
into our next life experience. An example of this can be witnessed in
recognizing patterns around relationships and circumstances that
continue to be a part of our experience. Always know that all
experiences connected to our contract are ultimately for our soul's
spiritual enlightenment and highest good. This is why it is extremely
important to embrace all people and experiences in our lives. There is
a far greater plan in action than our conscious mind could ever be
aware of.
If past lives are real
then how come we cannot remember them?
There are quite a few reasons that most people do not remember their
past lives on a conscious level. Living in the present moment is
extremely important for the growth our soul has contracted to
experience during this lifetime. If we were at all times privy to
information relating to past life experiences, it would diminish our
journey here. Knowing who we were in another time and space, what we
experienced, who and what our friends and family were to us in that
existence, would change the dynamics of the life we are living in the
present time. Another possible reason is that many of us assume that
things we actually do remember connected to past lives are not real.
Instead we concede to a belief that they must only be dreams or our
imagination. Additionally, our conscious mind by nature chooses to
avoid pain. Many past life experiences involve different levels of pain
and of course each life ends in death or loss, both of which are
painful. Lastly and most simply, many of us accept a mistaken idea that
we cannot remember past lives. This is simply not the case… you can. We
have been conditioned to the idea that we only live once and to focus
on the here and now. With accepting this belief, most of us do not try
to remember or tap into other lives our soul has lived. Through methods
such as past life regressions, mediums, meditation, and by remaining
open many of us have been able to connect to past lives. Living in the
present moment is very important, however, past lifetimes leave dormant
impressions that when unlocked, can greatly assist us in fulfilling
soul contracts and purpose in our present life experience.
What is a Soul Tribe?
We are all a part of a soul tribe. Your soul tribe consists of people
that you have deep connections with and have chosen to experience many
lifetimes with for the purpose of growth and evolution. Your tribe does
not only consist of your friends and your family but also includes
those individuals that you have an immediate and undeniable connection
with or an unexplainable pull towards. The energy is magnetic,
regardless of the relationship. There is an attraction that goes deeper
than a love connection or physical attraction. It is something you can
feel deeply within, on a soul level. These individuals are part of your
journey here and you are a part of theirs. These relationships can
present themselves surrounded by challenging circumstances or they can
be so easy and effortless. Recognizing members of your soul tribe is a
gift and always serves a higher purpose.
What is Automatic Writing?
Automatic writing is the process of writing material that does not come
from your own conscious thoughts. Instead the information is channeled
from a spiritual source. It is sometimes done in a trance state and
other times the writer is aware (not in a trance) of their
surroundings, but not of what is being channeled and written down. It
is often used as a way to directly connect to and channel Spirit in an
effort to receive messages on a personal or universal level.
How long should I wait
between Readings?
I recommended that clients allow at least 6 months before seeking a
‘Mediumistic Reading’. This advice is applicable whether the reading is
provided by myself or another professional Psychic Medium. This time
period is for your benefit while allowing each of us to honor Spirit.
It is also important for you to honor your soul's own personal
responsibility, free will choices, and ultimately your individual
journey. The frequency of ‘Intuitive Counseling’ sessions is determined
on an individual basis.
Do you have any Book
Recommendations?
"Reading is sometimes
thought of as a form of escapism, and it's a common turn of phrase to
speak of getting lost in a book. But a book can also be where one finds
oneself; and when a reader is grasped and held by a book, reading does
not feel like an escape from life so much as it feels like an urgent,
crucial dimension of life itself." ― Rebecca Mead
-Echos of the Soul by Echo Bodice
-The Seat of the Soul by Gary Zukav
-A Return to Love by Marianne Williamson
-The Untethered Soul: The Journey Beyond Yourself by Michael A. Singer
-A Still, Small Voice by Echo Bodine
-There's More to Life Than This by Theresa Caputo
-A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose by Eckhart Tolle
-The Art of Happiness by Dalai Lama
-The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
-The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz
-My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist's Personal Journey by Jill
Bolte Taylor
-Many Lives Many Masters by Brian Weiss
-Awaken the Spirit by Rebecca Rosen
-Heaven Is For Real by Todd Burpo, Lynn Vincent
-Proof Of Heaven by Eben Alexander, M.D.
-The Secret by Rhoda Byrne
-Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield
-The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
-90 Minutes in Heaven by Don Piper, Cecil Murphy
-Spirited by Rebecca Rosen
-E2 by Pam Grout
-Discovering Your Soul Signature by Panche Desai
-Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch
-The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success by Deepak Chopra
-Anatomy of the Spirit by Caroline Myss
-To Heaven and Back by Mary C. Neal, M.D.
-Healing with the Fairies by Doreen Virtue
-Healing with the Angels by Doreen Virtue
-The Conscious Parent: Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children
by Dr. Shefali Tsabary

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